First Time Planning a Hen Party? Here’s Your Cheat Sheet

The pressure is on: when you're the bridesmaid, it's on you to plan a fun and memorable night for the bride. Don't worry; you should enjoy the hen party as well. With these tips, you can. The key is to start early, stay calm – and maybe keep a chilled bottle of rosé nearby.

1. Plan the guest list. Is this the type of event where future mum-in-law expects to be invited? If so, consider having two events. One could be a low-key luncheon (potluck or have the other ladies help out with food) or spa day, while the other makes The Bachelor Party look tame.If it'll keep everyone happy, it's worth it. Remember, don't feel like you need to shell out for all the extravagant partying. Delegate, ask for help, and go to tip 2.

2. Set a budget. We've all heard bridezilla horror stories and demands of outrageously expensive parties. Don't participate in the drama. You can have fun on a budget, and it should be comfortable for the guests. Make sure, if you are booking events or buying tickets, people pay you up front. "I'll get it to you ASAP" tends to turn into a big pile of resentment.

3. Pick a location based on your budget. You needn't jet off to an exotic locale (but, by all means, if you all can afford it, go ahead!). A local event or a trip into the city can be great fun. Manchester, for instance, has a host of hen party-friendly activities, from the Adonis Caberet and live nude painting class (think paint and sip with a... well... twist), nightclubs and comedy clubs, elegant afternoon tea (perfect for mum-to-be) and much more. Even if you're from Manchester, play the tourist, get a few hotel rooms and give your girl a good send-off into marriage!

4. Be Cautious. We know there's a bit of imbibing during hen parties. Great! But put safety first. To ensure everyone can indulge, hire a professional driver. Bonus: a luxury limo tricked out with full bar, lights, and stellar audio is way better than the metro!